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Thursday, February 28, 2008

Lady Friends

There was an excellent article this past weekend in the Sunday Times Style mag by Jessica Brinton in which she speaks to Shere Hite (a renowned sex researcher) about platonic female-female relationships and how jealousy and mistrust can interfere. The article explores not only how we often let our competitive nature get in the way of friendship, but how we often put these sort of relationships to the side in favor of our romantic ones. Hite points out that while marriage is viewed as the ultimate consecration of romantic love, there isn't really anything to take special friendships to a higher level.
"The life cycle of friendships can be like that of a love affair. It surges and then it dies, because it doesn't know where to go. There is no such thing as a 'frienship party' and that's a shame. We need a word as beautiful as marriage."

She also argues that because modern society focuses so much on sexual love we do not express physical love towards our friends, and we are, as a society, starved for affection.
"Back in the days before a one-night stand was still eternal ruination, ladies were much more inclined to roll around in the hay together and call each other 'dearest one' without worrying about people getting the wrong idea"


read the article here.

Lady Friends

There was an excellent article this past weekend in the Sunday Times Style mag by Jessica Brinton in which she speaks to Shere Hite (a renowned sex researcher) about platonic female-female relationships and how jealousy and mistrust can interfere. The article explores not only how we often let our competitive nature get in the way of friendship, but how we often put these sort of relationships to the side in favor of our romantic ones. Hite points out that while marriage is viewed as the ultimate consecration of romantic love, there isn't really anything to take special friendships to a higher level.
"The life cycle of friendships can be like that of a love affair. It surges and then it dies, because it doesn't know where to go. There is no such thing as a 'frienship party' and that's a shame. We need a word as beautiful as marriage."

She also argues that because modern society focuses so much on sexual love we do not express physical love towards our friends, and we are, as a society, starved for affection.
"Back in the days before a one-night stand was still eternal ruination, ladies were much more inclined to roll around in the hay together and call each other 'dearest one' without worrying about people getting the wrong idea"


read the article here.

beard papa



i was going to write about cupcakes, but all cupcake sites i could find seemed uninspired in comparison to miss knomes's baking school creations. when i don't have the luxury of her confections, i sometimes treat myself and mr. fantasy to beard papa; fresh delicious japanese cream puffs. they are so amazing, mostly because they are so fresh. the cream, after you've chosen original or the flavor of the day, is injected to order, so the pastry doesn't get all gross and mushy. i recommend original (vanilla) but i mr. fanatsay prefers chocolate. there is one on oxford street in london, a handful in new york, and even one in new jersey!

beard papa



i was going to write about cupcakes, but all cupcake sites i could find seemed uninspired in comparison to miss knomes's baking school creations. when i don't have the luxury of her confections, i sometimes treat myself and mr. fantasy to beard papa; fresh delicious japanese cream puffs. they are so amazing, mostly because they are so fresh. the cream, after you've chosen original or the flavor of the day, is injected to order, so the pastry doesn't get all gross and mushy. i recommend original (vanilla) but i mr. fanatsay prefers chocolate. there is one on oxford street in london, a handful in new york, and even one in new jersey!

spoilers

spoilers

Leslie Hall

gay pride black girl posted a vid of leslie and the ly's on my myspace and i was SO into it. But I was also really excited because i recognized her from an issue of BUST magazine that i had long forgotten about. leslie, i think before her hip-hop days, has a huge collection of GEM SWEATERS (like what middle aged rich jewish ladies from north jersey wear)and created a mobile gem sweater museum out of them. she really has a lot and they are all amazing.



Leslie Hall

gay pride black girl posted a vid of leslie and the ly's on my myspace and i was SO into it. But I was also really excited because i recognized her from an issue of BUST magazine that i had long forgotten about. leslie, i think before her hip-hop days, has a huge collection of GEM SWEATERS (like what middle aged rich jewish ladies from north jersey wear)and created a mobile gem sweater museum out of them. she really has a lot and they are all amazing.



mmmmm me likey (mostly)

viktor & rolf fall 2008 ready-to-wear

according to style.com, this is whats up w/ their look right now...

into it ---



not into it ---



PARIS, February 26, 2008 – "We love fashion, but it's going so fast. We wanted to say 'No' this season." Thus spoke Viktor Horsting and Rolf Snoeren to a group of devoted fans and curious reporters eager to parse the meaning of a somewhat difficult Fall show that began with a precise gray trench, the word "No" popping out from its chest in 3-D, and ended with a strapless black tulle dress gathered below the knee and embroidered with the phrase "Dream on."More than three weeks into the collections, with another five days left to go, no one is going to argue the point with the Dutch designers. And they did manage to express the frustrations we all feel, with characteristic irony: with staples (as in metal fastenings, not wardrobe classics). They were golden staples, to be precise, and they stood in for seams at the waist of a peplum jacket and in pleats on a pair of baggy trousers; they fastened ruffles to the shoulder and hem of an asymmetrical party frock; and they became a form of glam embroidery on a strapless, tiered gown. Without them, these clothes (the frilled organza blouses, the nipped-waist red sheath, the belted fox coat) would've landed squarely on the predictable side of French chic. With them, and in such great numbers, the results felt gimmicky."



I don't quite agree -- I don't think w/o the gold staples the clothes would've been predictably french, in fact I think viktor & rolf are being a bit demure this season (words in the trench excluded)...there aren't any huge bows or collars or exaggerated anything like they usually do. I think the details of the clothes are rather elegant, even if I don't personally like some of them, just b/c. but I also don't think it felt gimmicky either...I think they were going in a new direction, and like all routes unchartered, there were some lovely hits and some not-so-lovely uglies.

mmmmm me likey (mostly)

viktor & rolf fall 2008 ready-to-wear

according to style.com, this is whats up w/ their look right now...

into it ---



not into it ---



PARIS, February 26, 2008 – "We love fashion, but it's going so fast. We wanted to say 'No' this season." Thus spoke Viktor Horsting and Rolf Snoeren to a group of devoted fans and curious reporters eager to parse the meaning of a somewhat difficult Fall show that began with a precise gray trench, the word "No" popping out from its chest in 3-D, and ended with a strapless black tulle dress gathered below the knee and embroidered with the phrase "Dream on."More than three weeks into the collections, with another five days left to go, no one is going to argue the point with the Dutch designers. And they did manage to express the frustrations we all feel, with characteristic irony: with staples (as in metal fastenings, not wardrobe classics). They were golden staples, to be precise, and they stood in for seams at the waist of a peplum jacket and in pleats on a pair of baggy trousers; they fastened ruffles to the shoulder and hem of an asymmetrical party frock; and they became a form of glam embroidery on a strapless, tiered gown. Without them, these clothes (the frilled organza blouses, the nipped-waist red sheath, the belted fox coat) would've landed squarely on the predictable side of French chic. With them, and in such great numbers, the results felt gimmicky."



I don't quite agree -- I don't think w/o the gold staples the clothes would've been predictably french, in fact I think viktor & rolf are being a bit demure this season (words in the trench excluded)...there aren't any huge bows or collars or exaggerated anything like they usually do. I think the details of the clothes are rather elegant, even if I don't personally like some of them, just b/c. but I also don't think it felt gimmicky either...I think they were going in a new direction, and like all routes unchartered, there were some lovely hits and some not-so-lovely uglies.

Wednesday, February 27, 2008

what is going on here


what is going on here


House of Gine


i know we make fun of 'the gine', aka emo ginehouse, aka amy winehouse, but i could be into her having her own clothing line. On a day to day basis, she does look like a hobo wearing a dead raccoon on her head, but i think when she dresses up for live performances and the like she looks pretty nice, from a style perspective. She always wears betsey johnson and fred perry, who are two of my fav designers ever, and she is into the whole rockabilly/60's/ pin-up vibe which i am into times ten. So i think if she gets the right people to work on this with her it could come out with some very desirable pieces. Not that her style is entirely a niche market, but i am supportive of this type of clothing being more avaible and having a larger selection to choose from. Of course, she could completely fuck it up and make a lot of horrible shit that only 10 year old white trash girls will want to wear and they will sell at ASDA (the english wal-mart), or make rockabilly style completely common place and played out, which would ruin my life. I think her best option is to do something a little down market from what chloe sevigny did for opening ceremony. It's a small collection where every piece is special and not available at every store on the street. Plus it's done through a very respectable clothing line, so the pieces are well made. Fred Perry does collaborations with other designers all the time, so i think it would be the perfect place to start a collection. Amy, don't fuck this up

House of Gine


i know we make fun of 'the gine', aka emo ginehouse, aka amy winehouse, but i could be into her having her own clothing line. On a day to day basis, she does look like a hobo wearing a dead raccoon on her head, but i think when she dresses up for live performances and the like she looks pretty nice, from a style perspective. She always wears betsey johnson and fred perry, who are two of my fav designers ever, and she is into the whole rockabilly/60's/ pin-up vibe which i am into times ten. So i think if she gets the right people to work on this with her it could come out with some very desirable pieces. Not that her style is entirely a niche market, but i am supportive of this type of clothing being more avaible and having a larger selection to choose from. Of course, she could completely fuck it up and make a lot of horrible shit that only 10 year old white trash girls will want to wear and they will sell at ASDA (the english wal-mart), or make rockabilly style completely common place and played out, which would ruin my life. I think her best option is to do something a little down market from what chloe sevigny did for opening ceremony. It's a small collection where every piece is special and not available at every store on the street. Plus it's done through a very respectable clothing line, so the pieces are well made. Fred Perry does collaborations with other designers all the time, so i think it would be the perfect place to start a collection. Amy, don't fuck this up

Tuesday, February 26, 2008

mista rogers

I was looking around google images for a tattoo of a pin-up bride of frankenstein and I came across this --



Mangesh
15 Reasons Mister Rogers Was the Best Neighbor Ever

by Mangesh - May 23, 2007 - 1:52 PM





1943-1-photo.jpgBack when I was in 7th grade I stood up in front of my English class and delivered a tongue-in-cheek, poorly researched presentation on why I thought Mister Rogers should be the next President. I ate up the first few minutes zipping up my cardigan, and putting on some sneakers, and then I proceeded to mock him roundly. It was a riotous success. Fourteen years later, I’m using this post to repent. The following are 15 things everyone should know about Fred Rogers:


fred-and-Koko.jpg1. Even Koko the Gorilla loved him

Most people have heard of Koko, the Stanford-educated gorilla who could speak about 1000 words in American Sign Language, and understand about 2000 in English. What most people don’t know, however, is that Koko was an avid Mister Rogers’ Neighborhood fan. As Esquire reported, when Fred Rogers took a trip out to meet Koko for his show, not only did she immediately wrap her arms around him and embrace him, she did what she’d always seen him do onscreen: she proceeded to take his shoes off!


2. He Made Thieves Think Twice

According to a TV Guide piece on him, Fred Rogers drove a plain old Impala for years. One day, however, the car was stolen from the street near the TV station. When Rogers filed a police report, the story was picked up by every newspaper, radio and media outlet around town. Amazingly, within 48 hours the car was left in the exact spot where it was taken from, with an apology on the dashboard. It read, “If we’d known it was yours, we never would have taken it.”



3. He Watched His Figure to the Pound!


274149.jpg In covering Rogers’ daily routine (waking up at 5; praying for a few hours for all of his friends and family; studying; writing, making calls and reaching out to every fan who took the time to write him; going for a morning swim; getting on a scale; then really starting his day), writer Tom Junod explained that Mr. Rogers weighed in at exactly 143 pounds every day for the last 30 years of his life. He didn’t smoke, didn’t drink, didn’t eat the flesh of any animals, and was extremely disciplined in his daily routine. And while I’m not sure if any of that was because he’d mostly grown up a chubby, single child, Junod points out that Rogers found beauty in the number 143. According to the piece, Rogers came “to see that number as a gift… because, as he says, “the number 143 means ‘I love you.’ It takes one letter to say ‘I’ and four letters to say ‘love’ and three letters to say ‘you.’ One hundred and forty-three.”



FredRogers_BigBird.jpg 4. He Saved Both Public Television and the VCR


Strange but true. When the government wanted to cut Public Television funds in 1969, the relatively unknown Mister Rogers went to Washington. Almost straight out of a Capra film, his 5-6 minute testimony on how TV had the potential to give kids hope and create more productive citizens was so simple but passionate that even the most gruff politicians were charmed. While the budget should have been cut, the funding instead jumped from $9 to $22 million. Rogers also spoke to Congress, and swayed senators into voting to allow VCR’s to record television shows from the home. It was a cantankerous debate at the time, but his argument was that recording a program like his allowed working parents to sit down with their children and watch shows as a family.



5. He Might Have Been the Most Tolerant American Ever


Mister Rogers seems to have been almost exactly the same off-screen as he was onscreen. As an ordained Presbyterian minister, and a man of tremendous faith, Mister Rogers preached tolerance first. Whenever he was asked to castigate non-Christians or gays for their differing beliefs, he would instead face them and say, with sincerity, “God loves you just the way you are.” Often this provoked ire from fundamentalists.



6. He Was Genuinely Curious about Others


Mister Rogers was known as one of the toughest interviews because he’d often befriend reporters, asking them tons of questions, taking pictures of them, compiling an album for them at the end of their time together, and calling them after to check in on them and hear about their families. He wasn’t concerned with himself, and genuinely loved hearing the life stories of others. Amazingly, it wasn’t just with reporters. Once, on a fancy trip up to a PBS exec’s house, he heard the limo driver was going to wait outside for 2 hours, so he insisted the driver come in and join them (which flustered the host). On the way back, Rogers sat up front, and when he learned that they were passing the driver’s home on the way, he asked if they could stop in to meet his family. According to the driver, it was one of the best nights of his life—the house supposedly lit up when Rogers arrived, and he played jazz piano and bantered with them late into the night. Further, like with the reporters, Rogers sent him notes and kept in touch with the driver for the rest of his life.


7. He was Color-blind

Literally. He couldn’t see the color blue. Of course, he was also figuratively color-blind, as you probably guessed. As were his parents who took in a black foster child when Rogers was growing up.



nyctransit051223ap.jpg 8. He Could Make a Subway Car full of Strangers Sing


Once while rushing to a New York meeting, there were no cabs available, so Rogers and one of his colleagues hopped on the subway. Esquire reported that the car was filled with people, and they assumed they wouldn’t be noticed. But when the crowd spotted Rogers, they all simultaneously burst into song, chanting “It’s a wonderful day in the neighborhood.” The result made Rogers smile wide.


A few other things:

9. He got into TV because he hated TV. The first time he turned one on, he saw people angrily throwing pies in each other’s faces. He immediately vowed to use the medium for better than that. Over the years he covered topics as varied as why kids shouldn’t be scared of a haircut, or the bathroom drain (because you won’t fit!), to divorce and war.

10. He was an Ivy League Dropout. Rogers moved from Dartmouth to Rollins College to pursue his studies in music.

11. He composed all the songs on the show,
and over 200 tunes.

12. He was a perfectionist, and disliked ad libbing. He felt he owed it to children to make sure every word on his show was thought out.

13. Michael Keaton got his start on the show as an assistant– helping puppeteer and operate the trolley.

misterrtrogers.jpg 14. Several characters on the show are named for his family.
Queen Sara is named after Rogers’ wife, and the postman Mr. McFeely is named for his maternal grandfather who always talked to him like an adult, and reminded young Fred that he made every day special just by being himself. Sound familiar? It was the same way Mister Rogers closed every show.

15. The sweaters.
Every one of the cardigans he wore on the show had been hand-knit by his mother.


I can’t sign off with out citing: Tom Junod’s wonderful profile of Fred Rogers and his obituary for him. They are two of the most lovely pieces I’ve (re)read in a very long time. Our researcher Kara Kovalchik also deserves credit for digging them up on an internet archive located here.

mista rogers

I was looking around google images for a tattoo of a pin-up bride of frankenstein and I came across this --



Mangesh
15 Reasons Mister Rogers Was the Best Neighbor Ever

by Mangesh - May 23, 2007 - 1:52 PM





1943-1-photo.jpgBack when I was in 7th grade I stood up in front of my English class and delivered a tongue-in-cheek, poorly researched presentation on why I thought Mister Rogers should be the next President. I ate up the first few minutes zipping up my cardigan, and putting on some sneakers, and then I proceeded to mock him roundly. It was a riotous success. Fourteen years later, I’m using this post to repent. The following are 15 things everyone should know about Fred Rogers:


fred-and-Koko.jpg1. Even Koko the Gorilla loved him

Most people have heard of Koko, the Stanford-educated gorilla who could speak about 1000 words in American Sign Language, and understand about 2000 in English. What most people don’t know, however, is that Koko was an avid Mister Rogers’ Neighborhood fan. As Esquire reported, when Fred Rogers took a trip out to meet Koko for his show, not only did she immediately wrap her arms around him and embrace him, she did what she’d always seen him do onscreen: she proceeded to take his shoes off!


2. He Made Thieves Think Twice

According to a TV Guide piece on him, Fred Rogers drove a plain old Impala for years. One day, however, the car was stolen from the street near the TV station. When Rogers filed a police report, the story was picked up by every newspaper, radio and media outlet around town. Amazingly, within 48 hours the car was left in the exact spot where it was taken from, with an apology on the dashboard. It read, “If we’d known it was yours, we never would have taken it.”



3. He Watched His Figure to the Pound!


274149.jpg In covering Rogers’ daily routine (waking up at 5; praying for a few hours for all of his friends and family; studying; writing, making calls and reaching out to every fan who took the time to write him; going for a morning swim; getting on a scale; then really starting his day), writer Tom Junod explained that Mr. Rogers weighed in at exactly 143 pounds every day for the last 30 years of his life. He didn’t smoke, didn’t drink, didn’t eat the flesh of any animals, and was extremely disciplined in his daily routine. And while I’m not sure if any of that was because he’d mostly grown up a chubby, single child, Junod points out that Rogers found beauty in the number 143. According to the piece, Rogers came “to see that number as a gift… because, as he says, “the number 143 means ‘I love you.’ It takes one letter to say ‘I’ and four letters to say ‘love’ and three letters to say ‘you.’ One hundred and forty-three.”



FredRogers_BigBird.jpg 4. He Saved Both Public Television and the VCR


Strange but true. When the government wanted to cut Public Television funds in 1969, the relatively unknown Mister Rogers went to Washington. Almost straight out of a Capra film, his 5-6 minute testimony on how TV had the potential to give kids hope and create more productive citizens was so simple but passionate that even the most gruff politicians were charmed. While the budget should have been cut, the funding instead jumped from $9 to $22 million. Rogers also spoke to Congress, and swayed senators into voting to allow VCR’s to record television shows from the home. It was a cantankerous debate at the time, but his argument was that recording a program like his allowed working parents to sit down with their children and watch shows as a family.



5. He Might Have Been the Most Tolerant American Ever


Mister Rogers seems to have been almost exactly the same off-screen as he was onscreen. As an ordained Presbyterian minister, and a man of tremendous faith, Mister Rogers preached tolerance first. Whenever he was asked to castigate non-Christians or gays for their differing beliefs, he would instead face them and say, with sincerity, “God loves you just the way you are.” Often this provoked ire from fundamentalists.



6. He Was Genuinely Curious about Others


Mister Rogers was known as one of the toughest interviews because he’d often befriend reporters, asking them tons of questions, taking pictures of them, compiling an album for them at the end of their time together, and calling them after to check in on them and hear about their families. He wasn’t concerned with himself, and genuinely loved hearing the life stories of others. Amazingly, it wasn’t just with reporters. Once, on a fancy trip up to a PBS exec’s house, he heard the limo driver was going to wait outside for 2 hours, so he insisted the driver come in and join them (which flustered the host). On the way back, Rogers sat up front, and when he learned that they were passing the driver’s home on the way, he asked if they could stop in to meet his family. According to the driver, it was one of the best nights of his life—the house supposedly lit up when Rogers arrived, and he played jazz piano and bantered with them late into the night. Further, like with the reporters, Rogers sent him notes and kept in touch with the driver for the rest of his life.


7. He was Color-blind

Literally. He couldn’t see the color blue. Of course, he was also figuratively color-blind, as you probably guessed. As were his parents who took in a black foster child when Rogers was growing up.



nyctransit051223ap.jpg 8. He Could Make a Subway Car full of Strangers Sing


Once while rushing to a New York meeting, there were no cabs available, so Rogers and one of his colleagues hopped on the subway. Esquire reported that the car was filled with people, and they assumed they wouldn’t be noticed. But when the crowd spotted Rogers, they all simultaneously burst into song, chanting “It’s a wonderful day in the neighborhood.” The result made Rogers smile wide.


A few other things:

9. He got into TV because he hated TV. The first time he turned one on, he saw people angrily throwing pies in each other’s faces. He immediately vowed to use the medium for better than that. Over the years he covered topics as varied as why kids shouldn’t be scared of a haircut, or the bathroom drain (because you won’t fit!), to divorce and war.

10. He was an Ivy League Dropout. Rogers moved from Dartmouth to Rollins College to pursue his studies in music.

11. He composed all the songs on the show,
and over 200 tunes.

12. He was a perfectionist, and disliked ad libbing. He felt he owed it to children to make sure every word on his show was thought out.

13. Michael Keaton got his start on the show as an assistant– helping puppeteer and operate the trolley.

misterrtrogers.jpg 14. Several characters on the show are named for his family.
Queen Sara is named after Rogers’ wife, and the postman Mr. McFeely is named for his maternal grandfather who always talked to him like an adult, and reminded young Fred that he made every day special just by being himself. Sound familiar? It was the same way Mister Rogers closed every show.

15. The sweaters.
Every one of the cardigans he wore on the show had been hand-knit by his mother.


I can’t sign off with out citing: Tom Junod’s wonderful profile of Fred Rogers and his obituary for him. They are two of the most lovely pieces I’ve (re)read in a very long time. Our researcher Kara Kovalchik also deserves credit for digging them up on an internet archive located here.

"the next andy warhol" bullshit

this pop artist todd goldman is getting a bunch of press right now and is being hailed as "the next andy warhol" but I am not into it. at first I thought it may be funny now I think he is trying to cash in on the whole "art made in microsoft paint that looks like it was done by a slightly retarded 5 year old but wait is really funny for people who want to be ironic" and I want to tell him to shut up. anyways you can read about how he is rich and apparently steals peoples' ideas and is an overall douchebag here


here are some examples of his work:






and I was in a bad mood b/c I thought he sucks so much but then when I was looking for a google image under "fat kids are harder to kidnap" I found this picture and then I laughed and felt better.